Write your own legacy

 

Diary of a Dub

A time to write your legacy.

I believe my best days are ahead, I can see the lights in front of me. 2020. A year that none of us will ever forget. A year that gave us so many unexpected things. Wanted or Unwanted depends on your perspective.

Lockdown and social distancing, Essential worker or Working from home, dry or wet pubs, Covid and NPHET, Biden and Trump, the Zoom quiz and / or the endless teams meeting, the ‘you’re on mute’ quote. This and much more. It may have taken much from our way of life and adjust we may have had to, but our GAA remains and it is an All-Ireland weekend. It may well be different but how we got here I have no idea, and most certainly here we are.

I remember the excitement earlier this year when the GAA announced there would be a championship and that the final would be the weekend before Christmas. Said excitement was on the basis we’d have 82,500 souls packed into Croker for said final. How misplaced was my glee? It is what it is as they say.

 


Still we are here. The eve of another final. A strange build up mixed with Christmas tidings and social distancings. All Ireland final week has been a superstitious ritual this decade, same old checklist of routines from the moment you enter final week. Washing the jersey 37 times, the agonizing wait for your confirmed match ticket. Your Friday night pre match eve drinks to settle the nerves, your Saturday night match drinks to cure the Friday night over-indulgence as well as cure the nerves again. Up for the Match. Oasis and Champange Supernova, The Dubliners and the Rocky Road to Dublin, The Monday off and maybe the Tuesday if you can or you’re able. The usual whatsapp family group checks and balances, what time at Gills, are we getting the Dart or a Taxi, don’t be fucking late, don’t forget your ticket ya dose, the head on ya. The banter, the videos, the music, the pre match build up, getting wound up by pundits and anti-Dub talk, Radio Silence and more.

You see, its more than just a normal week. Its an experience. It’s an endurance test, it is agony and it is ecstasy. It’s  full on immersion in your love of your county and your colour. Blue is the colour and no other way would I have it, and whilst 2020 does its best to wreak havoc on our way of life, we have adapted, and we have overcome, and tomorrow will be no different. This is not another game. This is history being made no matter who emerges victorious tomorrow evening. For Dublin, a 6 in a row, and the record-breaking unbeaten championship continues. If it’s Mayo, a 69-year wait is over, and losing record of 9 straight finals is banished, dare I even mention the legend that is that priests curse from 1951.

What will I miss most tomorrow? So much that an All-Ireland final day brings that I fear my words may not do it justice.

The feels, the butterflies, the nerves frayed from the moment you get up that day. The lack of sleep from the nerve curing beers from the night before. The breakfast aka the soakage. The Jersey hanging with all its pride is finally on. The playlist, Oasis et al. The goosebumps. The car dropped in Killiney, the chat with the parents, the customary warnings and lift offerings. The what time will you be home as if you even know lol. The Dart that seems to take forever to get into town. The walk to O’Connell street, the buzz and the noise increasing the closer you get. Am I there yet? The first glance of the Oval, almost there. The queue to catch the bar person’s eye, what score is it in the minors? The Howya to everyone, strangers one and all. The family arrive, late as fuck as usual, blaming Thomas as he blames the dart driver, the taxi driver, his Ma, the weather, his hangover etc. The first pint gone in 5 minutes, jaysus I’m thirsty. Whose round is it? Will we have one more and jump in a taxi up, sure there’s loads of time especially when there isn’t. The banter with the taxi driver, where are ya from, have you any good sounds? Drop us here and the absolute buzz, there's some amount of them here from Mayo/Kerry today. The walk past Gills, have we time for one more? Where is everyone? We better move or we will miss the anthem. The walk down Jones Road, the obligatory donation to the buskers for good luck. And we’re in, wisecracks on the stairs or in the lift, and I’m here. The parade, the national anthem, the feels and the roar of the hill. Any changes to the starting 15? Throw in and let the emotional rollercoaster begin. The halftime pint and a smoke, meeting someone you haven’t seen in years and the 2 minute chats, better get back and all that. The coming down the stretch final 10 minutes, the hill in full flight, a cardio workout and where the fuck did the referee get 7 minutes of added time? The nail biting, the cant look moments, will you blow it up ref. The final whistle and Dublin in the Rare auld times blasting in the stadium. The tears, the relief, the joy, the hugs, the high fives. The Pride. More feels. The ringing your Da tell him we won. More pints, jaysus me nerves are shot. The post-match analysis. Make sure I have a programme. Gills for catch-ups and let the celebrations begin. More hugs. The joy, the smiles on people’s faces. The commiserations for the loser. You’ll be back, a great team. The Grand Central and it is heaving. Wonderwall, Champage Supernova, come on ye boys in blue. More catch up’s and hugs and the greatest sing song ever. A night that never ends in a city that wont sleep for one night.   

We will have those days back. And of tomorrow, you make of it what you will, create your 2020 All Ireland final ritual and make the most of it. 2020 may have isolated us but its also connected us. Keeping each other safe is more important than anything. Those days will be back. And whilst we may be apart tomorrow, we will never be more together in spirit.

It had to be Mayo, didn’t it? In the decade of the Dubs, no team has ever us pushed us closer. Replays and 1 point games galore. 3 finals and 2 semi finals. GPS throwing, own goals, black cards, Lee and Dermo. Battles everywhere. A team able to match Dublin for intensity and physicality and drag them to within an inch of defeat on multiple occasions. It may now be a different Mayo team than that of 2016/17, but plenty of survivors and experience from then remains with tomorrow’s team. Motivation required – zero. Everyone in Ireland who is not a Dub stands behind the underdog and wishes for an end to the run. Some new talent has been found such as Conor Loftus and whilst this may be their first foray into an all Ireland final, sometimes youthful exuberance can overcome and triumph. James Horan is an astute coach and will have left no stone unturned in their preparations. He will have no lack of content to prepare his team for and if anything, it’s a punt to nothing. They are expected to lose therefore the weight of expectation cannot be the same as it was in 16/17.

It is 2020, the year of the upset. Ask Cavan, Tipperary and Cork as they upset the odds and the mighty and dared to dream, let alone never gave up. Does 2020 have one more twist? I would rule nothing out at this stage and urge caution against tempting fate (we have spoken about this before)

And of the new old Dubs, Dessie’s Army so to speak. More of the same this year, with some subtle differences. To the naked eye it would appear that very little change has occurred, but that would be incorrect. Tactically, this team are playing the game and the opponents as they see them, and have introduced some counter tactics against the high press amongst other things. They are however, the closest thing to a professional outfit in an amateur game, their hunger has not waned one bit. The hallmark of true champions is their ability and their will to win, and very few teams have done what this Dublin team have done. Kerry and Kilkenny are in that league, the best teams of their generations and I won’t mention the population statistics for fear we bring up that old chesnut on the eve of an All Ireland final. The mindset of this team (and those teams) is what is most striking. Don’t stop winning. One game and then the next, and the next one after that and so on. Winning is an infectious habit and it’s a culture. It is at the core of this Dublin team. We and no I, Together as one. Some faces will stay the same, some will come and some will go, but the core culture remains the same, and some new talent is emerging such as Bugler and McDaid. No talk of not having McCaffrey or Dermo this year despite their notable absences.

Their humility is another level and again a part of their core culture. Bloody Sunday 100 years on, lest we ever forget but this team marked this with the respect it deserved as have others who have followed since.

 


 

Today is not the day to deal with the criticism of Dublin and its success. Success breeds contempt. All champions face that the more successful they are and it wont go until Dublin lose. Accept it and move on. It doesn’t affect this team, a credit to their culture, attitude and inner beliefs, as well as their management team.

I’ve said this before but I will say it again. This week always makes me reflect on what it means to me to be a Dub. Dublin to me is a truly special place, but it more than just a place. It is full of Character, spirit, attitude. People of substance, meaning and purpose. Its people is where you will find the embodiment of all things great and wonderful. Social classes exist not when this Dublin team goes. Binding and bringing us all together, it is a family. It is a movement, a revolution, it’s a faith. And born into you may be, and if so, yours is truly a blessing for as long as your life may be. Dublin may be a changing, but its people don’t. Its specialness shall never be lost whilst she has her people. Buildings and landscapes don’t make a place, its people and its experiences do. Dublin, to me, gives you this and more.

As we age, those who are dear to us do too. Last year I wanted Dublin to win so bad for my dad given everything he had been through. It’s Mum’s turn this year, fighting her own battle with Covid and Co. Life throws us all curve balls and shows us how cruel and hard life it can be. She’s been with us every step of the way in all of our lives following Dublin. She’s been there with us at times, other times she’s been home, but she has been an ever present on this Dublin journey of ours. I watched the ’83 final at home with her as I was too young to go, I’ll never forget it. She always wanted a Dublin win for her boys and MK. Tomorrow will be no different. Her battle is our battle and tomorrow is for her. A will to win and a determination to overcome, whatever the odds, and we will never give up no matter how hard it may seem.

And as is customary as we face into another All-Ireland Sunday, here is your cupla focal for both the Dubs and my Ma.

Níl sé cibé an bhfaigheann tú buille síos, is cuma má éiríonn tú

(it’s not whether you get knocked down, its whether you get up, Vince Lombardi)

And so whether its in life or in sport, tomorrow may just be another day but for these Dubs, it is

A time to write your legacy….

 

COYBIB.



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